A STORY OF GROWTH, SETBACKS, AND RESTORATION

As we grow and evolve, so do our hair journeys. For many of us, our hair becomes a part of our identity, a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. My own hair journey has been filled with ups and downs, from long, healthy hair to insecurities and setbacks, but through it all, I’ve learned that the key to loving your hair is patience, care, and finding the right products to restore its natural beauty.

Growing up, I was blessed with luscious, long, and healthy hair. My mom always made sure to care for it, treating it every month to keep it shiny and strong. Those were the days when I truly loved my hair that was thick, full of volume, and with the perfect afro texture that made me stand out. I felt confident, knowing my hair was healthy and full of life.

However, when I was 12 years old, something changed. In an act of solidarity with my sister, who was about to go to boarding school and had to shave her head, I made the decision to cut my hair. At the time, it felt like the right thing to do, showing my support for her and sharing in the experience. But little did I know, that decision would affect my hair for years to come.

After I cut my hair, it never grew back the same. The texture changed, and instead of the thick, healthy hair I had before, it grew thin and weak. My once full afro started to look see-through and lacked the volume it used to have. I tried everything I could think of to restore it. Braiding my hair seemed like a good idea to help it grow, but instead, it only made things worse. It damaged my hairline, which became another source of insecurity.

By 2020, I had to cut my hair again in an attempt to start fresh, but even after the cut, my hair didn’t grow the way I had hoped. The texture was still off, and the once-thick hair I had cherished seemed like a distant memory. As a result, my insecurities grew, and I started hiding my hair. I relied on weaves to cover up my natural hair, feeling embarrassed about my hairline and the thinness of my hair. I even stopped braiding my hair with extensions for two years, afraid of letting people see how much my hair had changed.

It wasn’t until 2024 that I discovered something that would truly make a difference in my hair journey—Love Kinks. I decided to try the products, specifically the Hairline Serum, and I’m so glad I did. The change was almost immediate. The serum helped restore my hairline, something I hadn’t expected but was incredibly grateful for. It gave me back some of the confidence I had lost over the years.

Additionally, the Hydrating Spritz worked wonders in reducing shedding and breakage, especially after unbraiding my hair. I noticed that my hair felt thicker, healthier, and looked shinier than it had in years. It was like my hair was finally getting the care it had been missing for so long.

Looking back, my hair journey has been one of growth, both literally and figuratively. From the early days of thick, healthy hair to the struggles and insecurities, I’ve learned that hair care is a deeply personal process. It requires patience, commitment, and, most importantly, self-love.

Today, I am proud to say my hair is in a much better place. While it’s not quite where I want it to be just yet, I’m confident that with the right care and products, my hair will continue to grow stronger and healthier. It’s a journey that I’m excited to continue, and I hope that sharing my story can help others who may be facing similar challenges.

To anyone out there who’s struggling with their hair, remember that it’s okay to have setbacks. Embrace your journey, invest in the right products, and be patient. The best is yet to come.

Written by Ndumiso  Fakude✨